
Dr. Garland Vance and Dorothy Wood Vance are co-founders of AdVance Leadership and co-authors of Unleashed Leadership: How to Solve the 7 Issues Holding You Back from Your Greatest Impact. They have spent more than two decades developing leaders together, work that grew out of a shared start in creative writing. Their signature framework separates being leashed, when a leader's responsibilities outpace their capacity, from being unleashed, when a leader has closed that gap. Garland and Dorothy now teach leaders how to make that shift through their Decide, Discern, Deliver method.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
Why leadership decisions ripple out to teams, families, and organizations
How to recognize when you are leashed instead of unleashed
Why working harder rarely fixes a leadership problem
How the Decide, Discern, Deliver framework works in practice
Why self-awareness has to come before fixing everyone else
Why relationships matter as much as results
Why leading with love changes how people follow you
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September 10, 2026
Dr. Garland Vance and Dorothy Wood Vance
Lead With Love: How Great Leaders Transform People, Teams, and Families
"The most transformational thing that any leader can do is to love their people." — Garland and Dorothy Vance
TIMESTAMPS
1:21 — Meet Garland and Dorothy
2:53 — How They Met in College
3:51 — Building a Leadership Career
9:22 — Co-Leading as Partners
14:26 — Faith as Their Foundation
24:08 — Introducing Leashed and Unleashed
27:17 — The Bungee Cord Story
31:20 — Decide, Discern, Deliver
38:14 — How They've Changed as Leaders
46:24 — Where to Find Their Work
SHOW NOTES
In this episode, Dr. Dan sits down with Dr. Garland Vance and Dorothy Wood Vance, co-founders of AdVance Leadership and co-authors of Unleashed Leadership: How to Solve the 7 Issues Holding You Back from Your Greatest Impact. Garland and Dorothy met studying creative writing in college and have spent more than two decades since developing leaders together, learning firsthand how much good and bad leadership shapes the people around it. At the center of their work sits a distinction they call leashed versus unleashed. Being leashed happens when the gap between what a role demands and what a leader currently has the ability, resources, or capacity to deliver keeps widening, a pattern common among high achievers who respond to strain by pushing harder until they hit frustration, exhaustion, and burnout.
Garland and Dorothy walk through why working harder rarely closes that gap. Real change starts with self-awareness and a willingness to look at the leader before trying to fix everyone around them. Their Decide, Discern, Deliver framework offers a structured path: decide that change is worth pursuing, discern the root cause instead of reacting to symptoms, then deliver through consistent action. The conversation moves into marriage, family, boundaries, faith, and what it costs to lead people well, closing on a belief that grounds their entire practice: people deserve great leadership.
LINKS & RESOURCES
Resources & links
Website: https://advanceleadership.live
Key Concepts
Leashed vs. Unleashed — The gap between what a leader's role demands and what their current capacity allows. Leashed leaders live inside that gap; unleashed leaders have closed it.
Decide, Discern, Deliver — A three-step framework for change: decide to pursue growth, discern the actual root cause of a problem, then deliver through consistent action.
Leading With Love — The belief that caring for people, treating them with dignity, and investing in their growth is what makes leadership transformational rather than merely functional.
Relationships Over Results — The principle that how people are treated during the work matters as much as what the work accomplishes.
GUEST BIO
Dr. Garland Vance and Dorothy Wood Vance are co-founders of AdVance Leadership and co-authors of Unleashed Leadership: How to Solve the 7 Issues Holding You Back from Your Greatest Impact. Their path into leadership development began in college, where they studied creative writing together, and has continued for more than two decades as they've coached leaders across companies, teams, and families. Garland and Dorothy built their work around a core distinction between being leashed, when responsibilities exceed a leader's current capacity, and being unleashed, when that gap has closed through self-awareness and intentional growth. Their Decide, Discern, Deliver framework gives leaders a repeatable path out of burnout and into clarity. Beyond the boardroom, Garland and Dorothy bring the same principles into marriage, parenting, and community, teaching that leadership is not a title but a daily choice about how to treat the people in front of you.
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